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Melissa Fritchle, MA


Holistic Psychotherapy & Couples Therapy

Sex Therapy

Clinical Hypnotherapy

Appointments available in the Santa Cruz area 831 471-5797

CA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #46827

Talks for Private Groups


Your Sexuality has grown and evolved – so why are you still relying on the Sex Ed. you had in High school?

I am available to come to your group, school, organization or home to provide safe, accurate and professional, and fun educational talks about sex and/or relationships. These can be anywhere from one hour to a full day workshop. I can speak on a wide range of topics, so I will work with you to create the topic that fits for your group. Travel is possible and will be a part of the considerations. Contact me to talk about pricing and scheduling. I do give discounts for non-profit groups and sometimes am available to volunteer.

Here are some ideas that other groups have enjoyed :

Fun Inspiring Talks for Everyone

Your Body's Got It Going on - Your body is amazing. Find out what happens when you get aroused, orgasm, fantasize and more. The more you know about your body and your partners' body, the more you can work with it.

The Monogamy You Want - You want long term desire, fun, connection and more, right? Let's talk about realistic ways to build that in your relationships.

Considerations For Polyamory -If you are considering an open relationship or revamping a long term one, we will talk about practical tips to make it work, stages and phases you amy go through and creating a place for your relationships in our current culture.

Planning for a Sexy Old Age -There are things you can do now to preserve your sexual health, and they go way beyond anti-aging. Get solid ideas to keep sexuality alive.

Talks for Parents

Talking to Your Kids About Sex -Let's face it, sexual content is out there. You need to be ready to talk to your kids about sex at an early age. This talk will help you feel more prepared and comfortable when those topics come up.

Creating Positive Body Image at Home -Supporting our kids in feeling good about their bodies and their selves is something most parents strive for. What can you be doing to promote body confidence and love?

Sex After Baby -How do we keep our sexual connection alive when it feels like everything has changed? It’s possible. We will talk about what to expect, what we are afraid of, and how to keep your sexual self from disappearing.

Topics for Women’s Groups

Asking for What You Want -Does it sometimes feel tricky to speak up about your sexual desires or fantasies? You can build up the skills to take that risk while laughing with your girlfriends.

Sexual Confidence -Let’s spend some time building up love for who you are and all the great things you have to offer at any age, shape, life stage or state of mind.

The Ageless Erotic – Helping our Bodies Keep up with our Minds -Your body is an ever-changing sexual force. This talk for pre-menopausal and post menopausal women will highlight the changes women may experience as they age and ways to work with our bodies rather than against them. Learn to treat your changing body like a new lover you are inspired to get to know better.

Topics for Men’s Groups

Don’t be Afraid of Her Vibe -Be a sexually confidant man. This talk will encourage men who love women to play more, fear less, and to expand their understanding of their own sexual potential and their partners’ desires. Do you wonder what she wants? Are you a little afraid to find out? Let’s talk about ways to get that conversation started. There are so many ways to have fun it bed, why limit yourself?

Getting Better with Age -Learn more about their bodies’ aging process and how to stay sexually vibrant. We will discuss the possibility and the hype of sexual enhancement drugs, how to expand your sexual map, and how to use what you have. This is a good time to get specific tips about erectile function, sore backs, and testosterone levels.